Saturday, October 24, 2009

THE PROGRESSION OF A GRIEF OBSERVED

My special friend, Dr. Kevin Merigian, lost his dear wife in June, 2009. At 49 years, she lived a full life in a very short time. The following poem is a classic example of the process of loss by someone who has looked grief square in the eye and won the battle. God bless him!

SOMEHOW I MAKE IT THROUGH

There are those painful days.
Sun rises in the morning.
I experience the agony of breathing.
I know that you're not here beside me.
I know that you can't return.
I know that you can't touch me again.
I know that I can't hold you close.

Somehow I make it through those painful days.

There are those not-so-painful days.
Sun rises in the morning.
I experience the work of breathing.
I know that you're not here beside me.
I know that you can't return.
I know that you can't touch me again.
I know that I can't hold you close.

Somehow I make it through those not-so-painful days.

The painless days are ahead.
The sun will rise in the morning.
I will experience unconscious breathing again.
I know that you will not be here beside me.
I know that you will not return.
I know that you will not touch me again.
I know that I will not hold you close again.

Somehow I will make it through those painless days.

Some days the tears seem almost artificial.
The crying is always real.

I miss you.

Kevin S “Kiki” Merigian © October 20, 2009

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