Wednesday, June 18, 2008

PERFECTIONISM

Perfectionism seems to have reached epidemic proportions in our culture. Perfectionism isn't about doing things well-- it's about never being satisfied with how you do things and no matter what you do, it's never enough.

Perfectionism is seen in three modes.
Those who expect it of themselves but not others;
those who expect it of others but not themselves;
and those who expect it of themselves and others.

Our culture promotes it through education, athletics, and religion, as well as other avenues. But perfectionism is demonic and enormously destructive to individuals, marriages, children and families.

Perfectionism prevents peace of mind and contentment with living and is the underlying cause of much anxiety, depression and addictions.

The good news is, perfectionism is learned and with some good help, it can be unlearned.

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